Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Workin' on my Wife Skills

I went home this past weekend for the first time in months. The week and a half leading up to this weekend and the month that is coming are roughly equivalent to hurricane Sandy on steroids (too soon?), so the fact that I was able spend some time ignoring the millions of things that I have to do was like an island haven of peace in the middle of my own personal storm. My mantra for two weeks had been "home. home. home. home."


There's no place quite like the MidWest. It reminds me of one of those relatives that you love because you're related to them, but there are quite honestly no other legitimately valid reasons why. As I crossed the Michigan/Indiana state line, warmly welcomed back by the Pure Michigan sign, the happy feelings welling up inside of my chest were quickly squelched by the memory of a sign I had passed a while back on the highway advertising Deer Pee for sale. At first I thought surely I had read it wrong, but realized after several minutes of thought that my first instinct was correct. Flabbergasted, I couldn't understand why anyone would want to sell urine. ...Or, perhaps the better question, why anyone would want to buy it. My older sister kindly set me straight later by informing me that deer hunters spray it on themselves to cover their scent and/or attract all the boy deer.

Fantastic. At least the buying and selling (and hopefully spraying) of the urine was happening in Indiana.

And after that fascinatingly random side-story, back to the weekend. I’d been planning this weekend for two weeks. Nothing and no one was going to stand in-between me and my perfect weekend. At school, I have neither the time, energy, resources, or space to cook food, bake things, make crafts, or all the other various "domestic" kinds of things that litter the Pinterest boards of girls across the country. All my pent-up crafting and homemaking energies were going to expend themselves in one massive creative explosion. Determined to be all the stereotypes of a woman hyperbolized to the max for two days, I had my Friday and Saturday planned to a "T".
On Friday morning, I would go out to an early breakfast with my momma, go grocery shopping, and pick up craft supplies, then in the afternoon I would start the soup for dinner in the crockpot, finish my laundry, wash the dishes, bake a pumpkin spice cake, and sew a shoulder bag all before my family came home for dinner, at which time I would present them with a three-part dinner and a clean house. On Saturday, I would create my own laptop cover, go thrift store shopping with my sister and my boyfriend-in-law, and complete with excellence the mountain of homework that has accumulated in my planner. I AM WOMAN.

Surprisingly, those two days were a great success.

When I say surprisingly, I really do mean surprisingly. That wasn’t facetious. Most of the time, my grandiose plans for homemaking involve an extreme excitement for starting a project, which quickly deteriorates into bewilderment and frustration when I realize that I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing with this project and my life in general, leading to an existential crisis wherein I despair at the fact that I am an untalented blob with no use to anyone or anything. At this point, feeling as helpless as a one-finned platypus in the Sarahan desert, I turn the half finished disaster over to my mother. She finishes it for me. Every time. (God bless that woman. She is a saint.)

This time, however, I was determined to finish everything myself. I would be accomplished if it killed me. I would like to be a wife someday (at this point, the probability of that happening is somewhere around the odds of winning the lottery or getting struck by lightning 7 times in 6 years, but the point still applies), and I figured that I should probably start practicing those skills that most wives effortlessly seem to have.

So, what were the results of all my hard labor? 
Well, I’m glad you asked cause I was about to show you anyway. I’m a bit addicted to Pinterest, and I found a recipe several months ago for a Tomato Basil Parmesan soup. Freaking kidding me? That sounds delicious. I was determined to make it at some point in my life, and this weekend seemed like as good a time as any, so the soup was the first part of my family’s three part dinner. It was a huge hit with my parents, at least (my sister was slightly less enthused), delicious, and so easy to make.






Contrary to the image people get when the word “vegetarian” is used, I am not an animal rights extremist, nor am I one of those individuals who doesn’t bathe for weeks on end and weaves all of their own clothes out of hemp fiber and dandelion greens, but I do try to eat healthy, so I avoid meat and most animal products for that reason. In order to maintain my vegetarian ways, I substituted vegetable broth for the chicken broth, soy milk for the half and half, and Chobani for the butter.

I didn’t take pictures of these, but I made grilled pepperjack cheese sandwiches to go with the soup. That was the second part.

The third part was a pumpkin spice cake. I found a terrific idea (again, on Pinterest) of stacking two Bundt cakes on top of each other to make the shape of a pumpkin. How cute and clever, right? What an awesome harvest time food idea. Let’s just say that my efforts were a little less like the cute harvest time food buffet and more like the dessert that would be served in a Tim Burton themed Halloween dinner.


Cooking: 2 for 3. Hey, I’ll take that. In baseball, that’s a kick butt batting average. It’s all about perspective. The crafting projects I took on went fantastically well, though, so I’m happy enough.
Here’s the shoulder bag that I made (pattern available at http://crazylittleprojects.com/2012/09/messenger-bag-tutorial.html):


And here is the laptop cover that I made (no pattern for this one, because I did it ALL BY MYSELF. That’s right. Be jealous.):




I discovered that embroidery is actually kind of fun! I started toying with this dangerously tempting idea of making all my Christmas presents this year by embroidering things for my friends and family. Better be careful, April. You had some successes this time around, but that existentially challenged Saharan-dwelling platypus could reemerge at any moment…

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